Parent Guide

Understanding the IEP Process

A parent-friendly overview of special education referral, assessment, eligibility, IEP development, review meetings, and consent.

Educational Information Only: This guide is provided for general educational and informational purposes. It is not legal advice, does not create an attorney-client relationship, and is not a substitute for advice from a licensed attorney. Dickerson Education Advocates provides non-attorney educational advocacy and parent support. The application of education laws and procedures depends on the individual facts of each student’s situation.

Referral and request for assessment

The process often begins when a parent or school staff member suspects a student may need special education support. Parents can submit a written request for assessment. The request should describe the concerns and ask the district to assess in all areas of suspected disability.

Assessment plan

The district typically provides an assessment plan that lists areas to be evaluated. Parents should review whether the plan covers academics, communication, behavior, social-emotional functioning, attention, sensory needs, motor skills, assistive technology, and any other relevant concern.

Eligibility

After assessments, the team reviews whether the student meets eligibility criteria and whether the disability affects educational performance. Eligibility is not only about grades. It may involve communication, behavior, attendance, school avoidance, social functioning, executive functioning, or access to instruction.

Developing the IEP

An IEP should identify present levels, annual goals, services, accommodations, supports, placement, and how progress will be measured. Parents are team members and may ask questions, provide input, request clarification, and disagree with proposed sections.

Annual and triennial reviews

IEPs are reviewed at least annually, and students are typically reevaluated at least every three years unless the team agrees otherwise. Parents can also request a meeting sooner when concerns arise.

Parents may consent to some or all of a proposed IEP, ask for revisions, or request clarification. Written communication after meetings helps preserve what was discussed and what still needs attention.

Quick parent checklist

  • Write down your top three concerns before the meeting.
  • Save emails, reports, progress updates, and relevant records in one folder.
  • Ask the school team what data supports each recommendation.
  • Send a follow-up email summarizing unresolved issues and next steps.
Important notice: This guide is educational information for parents and is not legal advice. Dickerson Education Advocates provides non-attorney parent advocacy and educational support only.

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